Merry Christmas

Wow! What a Christmas it has been around the Ross tribe. The blessings keep pouring in for us.

When Garrett wrote his "Santa letter" about a month ago, the first thing on his list was a "Chris Thomas" jersey. Chris is a remarkable young man who plays Strong Safety on the Air Force Academy football team. He is one of the best safeties in the conference! Garrett has never met Chris, but is really a fan of the player. I can't think of a more positive roll model than an Air Force Cadet. Our military have thousands of great people who stand for the right things in life.

I made a simple phone call to a great friend, Mike Simler, looking for a replica jersey. Mike's father was an Air Force General, Air Force Academy A.D., and started the Commander In Chief's Trophy. Well, that started a firestorm when Mike pushed buttons. Now a simple search for a Christmas gift has developed into a gift he'll never forget. The Air Force Academy football team, Chris Thomas' family, the Simlers and others, are sponsoring Garrett to join the team at the Armed Forces Bowl in Ft. Worth, TX on New Year's Eve! He will stay at the team hotel, ride over to the game on the team bus and get to spend time with the team and their families. What an incredible gift! We are humbled beyond comprehension. This truly will be a gift he never will forget. How many kids ever get to see a bowl game, with their favorite team and college player?

The kids gave me the best gift I could have received this year. They knew funds were tight so they didn't ask to buy each other a gift. Instead, they each on their own, decided to give the other an item of theirs that is very special. To watch that interaction and see them hug each other Christmas morning without being influenced by mom or dad is truly a gift I will never receive. Those two are best of friends and the love they share makes me proud. They've been through a lot together, and their bond is extraordinary. They showed this, too, during a recent filming event to promote research for heart disease.

We have been asked to represent the American Heart Association as an "ambassador family" of sorts, for a large event and fundraiser in Denver next year. We've always said that if Garrett's story can help another child, we'll share it. They are producing a short film on Garrett's journey, and just hearing what the kids said about each other, family, friends and God.....again, warms the heart of a daddy.

Jessi has been amazing throughout all of the challenges and highlights. There's been so much done and said about Garrett, and Jessi has quietly stayed in the background being supportive, loving and unselfish. Even when Garrett was so sick she would go around to me, Garrett or mommy and make sure we were all ok. She's much more mature than her 8 years. Kathy and I have decided that an "anonymous" donor is going to sponsor her for a trip with one of us for being such a great sister through all of this. She is more eaten-up with rodeo than even her brother, so we're going to take her to an out of state rodeo for a few days and really make over her. Garrett is a very special boy, but he's just a boy and we want to balance how much attention he gets while Jessi sits back and watches in silence. There needs to be a reward for that kind of courage, too.

Well, it's winter again. The cold keeps us inside more than we like, but it gives me fewer excuses not to drop you all a note and let you know how the little warrior is doing. He's taken to basketball now and is doing well. He likes the game and his coach plays him a lot. He continues to have nightmares but we've finally gotten a few leads on someone who may be able to help him move past that.

As I sign off, I ask you all to pray for a family I know who lost their son to heart disease just a few days ago. While we were able to celebrate the magic of Christmas with our son, another family is planning a funeral for theirs. The gifts we have been given are not wasted because we will continue to use these gifts to glorify God and help find a way to cure this terrible disease.

Merry Christmas, Happy New Year, and may you all share in the blessings of the Christ Child, the warmth of His love, and the magic of the season seen through the eyes of a child who for a while, can forget about fear and pain. If we learn from them, we can too.

God Bless,

JD

Checking In

It has been quite a while since a post, so I thought I'd put out a short one quickly to let everyone know that Garrett is doing really well. He had a great summer playing baseball and once again, just being a kid. He still has nightmares from time to time, but slowly he will hopefully be able to deal with the "demons" that naturally come with such a traumatic experience. Overall, he's done remarkably well.

We had a little bit of a scare when Garrett was diagnosed with the H1N1 flu a while back. He apparently got it at school. He was a pretty sick little guy for a few days, but came out of it really well. Not being sure how his heart would handle the situation, Kathy and I were pretty spooked. We took turns sleeping with him for a while, and thus got it too. We all felt lousy for about a week, but the put the whole family on the Tamiflu and it helped.

Garrett's doing good in school this fall. We held him back a year because he missed so much school a year ago that he was constantly behind and frustrated. He and Jessi are now going to school right next door, which is great. They just walk across the pasture and they're there! He's playing basketball now and really enjoying that.

There's so much to tell, but all at once is too much. Garrett has a biopsy scheduled for the first of next year, which will be really tough. So we won't even tell him for a while, though he asks about it once in a while.

Hope everyone is well and thanks for all the prayers. They work!

God bless,

JD

March 2nd, 2009 One Year!

Hello, Friends!

It’s been a while so today seemed like the perfect time to update Garrett’s blog. Exactly one year ago today, we received a blessing that words cannot describe. Thank you for hanging in there with us.

The past several months have raced by so quickly. In January, Garrett received a “Western Wishes” wish. They are the cowboy answer to “Make A Wish Foundation”. The whole family was treated to a weekend at the Denver Stock Show and Rodeo, where Garrett and Jessi hung out with many of the top cowboys in world. Garrett made new friends, and was given a special gift by the young man who won the Free Style Bull Fighting event…his championship buckle! It was an incredible weekend, to be sure. The fact that so many people are still reaching out to him, reminds us how truly blessed we are.

Yesterday, we had a small gathering of folks to celebrate our 1st year with our new boy. In perfect Ross family style, it could not go quietly. Just as we were packing the car to head to the event, I heard Garrett scream for “daddy”. The tone of his voice told me something was terribly wrong.

He had been in the yard playing ball with a friend (baseball tryouts were Saturday). He was throwing the ball in the air, and hitting it with a bat. Enter a yearling puppy named “Stella”. She is a 13 pound terrier, given to Jessi and Garrett as a gift by one of his nurses. Stella went for the ball just as Garrett swung. When I arrived, Stella was not breathing and in complete seizure. I gave her a quick rib rub, which caused her to start breathing. After quickly checking for, and finding no obvious broken bones, I carried her unresponsive body to a good friend’s waiting pick up. He had just pulled in. We made a mad dash to the 24 hour urgent vet care where after 24 hours and plenty of IV meds, she was able to come home with a whopper of a headache.

Last night, Kathy and I had to realize that though the day had been traumatic, (Garrett was sure he’d killed his dog…and nearly did) we realized that God gave us another blessing. One year ago, we had been praying for Him to save our boy. This year at the exact same time, we were praying He’d save a dog. We’ve come a LONG way!

Garrett told me later that he’d run off to the barn and knelt in a stall, asking Jesus to save his puppy. I guess Jesus really does love the prayers of a child. Today, you can’t hardly tell she’d been whacked.

We’ll write more soon, I promise, but I had to take this opportunity to let you all know that Garrett is doing great physically. We still awake every day victorious, and still finish every night on our knees thanking Him for one more day. Only now we do it with a dog who's worth about $30.00 a pound since yesterday.

God Bless you all.

JD